I did that too. Why else would she show up at your place at 10pm unannounced? Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. i would ve to agree with ben, it does ve to do with the level of relationship, if the relationship is a serious one by that i'm assuming both parents are involved that kinda thingy there's nothing wrong in popping in unannounced but if otherwise which a lot of ladies like to do (wonder y) its best to call before showing up not because of anything I called the cops on one who did that. Anyone reading my previous threads would know that my ex hates me and says he never wants to see me again. Personally, the unannounced showing up of an ex is UNFORGIVEABLE. Best of luck! He mentioned names Id never heard of. im not sure what you meant by, "OTOH, if you broke it off and truly want to try again, can you not contact her by some other means?". /*# sourceMappingURL=https://www.redditstatic.com/desktop2x/chunkCSS/IdCard.ea0ac1df4e6491a16d39_.css.map*/Kindness Matters. It is also a sign of pathological jealousy. We both agreed that we needed to be alone because we became so consumed with each other. I (m/28) popped up last night at my exs house unannounced to collect a phone I got for her because her old phone was completely fucked under the Press J to jump to the feed. 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I've talked to friends and they've just told me to stay away or else I'll just get hurt all over again. I would not recommend showing up unannounced. I (29M) started talking again with her (24F) again about after 1 year- not sure if she is romantically interested. But then again, she doesn't know what she wants at all. You did well though from you've told us. ._2cHgYGbfV9EZMSThqLt2tx{margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{width:75%;height:24px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-,._3Q7WCNdCi77r0_CKPoDSFY{background:var(--newCommunityTheme-field);background-size:200%;margin-bottom:16px;border-radius:4px}._2wgLWvNKnhoJX3DUVT_3F-{width:100%;height:46px} I was very worried. Not that much, but a little just because it was out of left field. or at least don't answer the door. He's out and about having a good time, while I'm dealing with the whole bu and grieving process. So she was worried about what to do etc.. That night when I caught her though of course she acted like she was trying to break up with me. He didn't and was using her). At the time, we agreed to split up and take some time to work on ourselves. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. He was psycho though & my father called the cops on him, of course he was gone by the time they showed up. We haven't communicated there in months So hm. I think you need to tread carefully with him. Im finding it hard because I think NC is best but I dont want to make him think that Ive moved on and am "already seeing other guys" like he suggests. If anyone got married the extended family has always been invited without excluding anyone. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. Get Please note we are a support sub for stepparents' issues. I imagine she is hurting and needs you to give her a "fix" first instinct is run! Girls, Would you contact your ex boyfriend if you still loved He is acting just like I did, completely irrationally and confused. She said that she felt like being with someone else would help her. Tuesday, December 13, 2022. I was a bit shocked so I let him in and he had a cup of tea. Stalks the house, finds doors locked, calls, comes by unannounced, multiple times per day, dont care what, when, how or who. Just to add too- I've been ignoring her weekly texts for roughly the last six weeks. But I do love her anymore and just deal with this. If he continues to show up at your door getting angry, get a restraining order. This subreddit is a community-oriented place for stepparents from all walks of life. I suppose going over there may not be the right thing to do but my mind keeps telling me I need to do something. He sounds downright manipulative to me. I pretty much let it go this morning and feel back to normal now. 200+ Perfect Nicknames For Guys: Best Names Ideas. Make sure to keep your door locked. Obviously she felt guilty, and wanted you to hear her out. I've learned from a lot of my mistakes that I made in the past. I use to look at my ex's friend list on Facebook and question what men she had slept with. when i asked him why he came after he started being nasty he started crying and just said. She probably thinks that I'm going to be on pins and needles for the next time she shows up. That's the only reason why you came over? I was a mess for the first two months, but then I pull myself out of the funk. Yeah, I was pretty pissed off when she told me that she was standing outside of my door. My SO is upset with me over this decision. He just wanted to bully and intimidate me. ENA has been a great support network you are all very nice people. . I'm glad you got pepper spray. DEAR AMY: Two years ago, I was casually seeing a man, Brian, for about a months time. This is an act of stalking. Ill do what you say and leave him alone and hopefully he will come to me at somepoint. Who dumped who in my situation is a bit hard. Yeah I agree with you here. Don't do it! ._12xlue8dQ1odPw1J81FIGQ{display:inline-block;vertical-align:middle} I am no longer angry with her but the trust was completely broken. It may or may not work, but its atleast a more passive approach to someone HC & also allows you to kind of assert your position in their lives - which I have found is important considering they often live in denial. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. And I got really mad, saying that I felt like she used me, I felt like a two-year crutch. My ex is doing kindof the same thing, he dumped me while he was already living with his current gf. I have not spoken to my husbands ex in over 2 years. I'm sorry I bothered you. What gives her the right to do something like that man? The more I told her that was all my feelings were too intertwined and honestly do not want our life together. I do not remember making that agreement. Everytime I tell him the truth he says im lying. Her: Again I thought you should knowSorry If I confused you or bothered you. Woke up a sick Child, pulled a her out of bed and carried her out and her in the car and left. It sucks and hurts a lot, but I'm learning a lot about myself and the relationship these last few weeks. File a complaint. Ice queen I've read a lot of your posts though kid, so I know you know that. I don't mean going over their house a day or week after the breakup. 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I dont even do that to my own mother . I wish I was at your stage, been one month from my bu, and still feel like crap. So immediately, I'm skeptical. She is blocked from everything possible. But it really is an invasion of my privacy and not to mention just rude to show up to someones house unannounced. Very worried. Who knows. As I was walking out my door I saw his ex parked in front of our house. .LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH{fill:var(--newRedditTheme-actionIcon);height:18px;width:18px}.LalRrQILNjt65y-p-QlWH rect{stroke:var(--newRedditTheme-metaText)}._3J2-xIxxxP9ISzeLWCOUVc{height:18px}.FyLpt0kIWG1bTDWZ8HIL1{margin-top:4px}._2ntJEAiwKXBGvxrJiqxx_2,._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{vertical-align:middle}._1SqBC7PQ5dMOdF0MhPIkA8{-ms-flex-align:center;align-items:center;display:-ms-inline-flexbox;display:inline-flex;-ms-flex-direction:row;flex-direction:row;-ms-flex-pack:center;justify-content:center} No doubt! He was busy taking care of a sick child and not at his phone and HCBM decided it was a good idea to drive to our house because she was worried with her own mother in tow as a witness I assume all because she didnt get an update for a few hours. Showing up unannounced or uninvited. Any advice? She said that wasn't the case at all, that she fell in love with me after a short while. Are you interested in getting back with him after the way he's treated you and even said that he hates you? Just asking opinions from lawyers of possible actions to do? obviously she had told her son I was learning russian. I think it's wayyyy too early to tell. 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Just Me85March 30, 2009 in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships. I had called once andher maid answered and I spoke her native language. she rarely smoked cigarettes but in those 3 weeks I saw that she had smoked a lot of cigarettes. "He was my everything"I hope that is just an expression. Also, she was very codependant on me. I know I cant save him and it needs to come from him but something just doesnt add up. but it was more of her testing out a guy to see if she liked him before she broke up with me kinda deal. A woman said she took her five-year-old child to the home of a YouTuber unannounced. Remember that OP is a human being and their needs are first and foremost on this sub. I think we both have issues to deal with. @keyframes ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5{0%{transform:rotate(0deg)}to{transform:rotate(1turn)}}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq{--sizePx:0;font-size:4px;position:relative;text-indent:-9999em;border-radius:50%;border:4px solid var(--newCommunityTheme-bodyTextAlpha20);border-left-color:var(--newCommunityTheme-body);transform:translateZ(0);animation:ibDwUVR1CAykturOgqOS5 1.1s linear infinite}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq,._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{width:var(--sizePx);height:var(--sizePx)}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq:after{border-radius:50%}._3LwT7hgGcSjmJ7ng7drAuq._2qr28EeyPvBWAsPKl-KuWN{margin:0 auto} We'll see what happens. It was disasterous. Ice queen If you feel threatened by their refusing to leave, you can call the police. I did enable her too though, so it's not totally her fault. Some people have been saying I should never have told him but I felt he needed to know the truth. Turns out he left. What really rubs me about this situation is this. 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